Still, navigating the world of online dating can definitely be tricky—what kind of message is clever, but not creepy?
Meanwhile others were inept, including some of my own friends who are attractive and lovely but relentlessly single."The women who are most successful at dating and marriage know how to make a man feel good.
His findings have been distilled into a tome titled Own That Guy In 60 Days and include putting the man you want on a pedestal and focusing all your attention on him.
Oh and have sex with him on the first date too."I hadn't been single since I was about 20," Lavak tells me on the phone from his home in London.
Here are some of his tips for finding – and keeping – The One. Do you want looks, wealth, a young toned Olympian or a man with a Chelsea townhouse? THE MORNING AFTERLavak tells me: "Men have confidence issues too and if he doesn't hear from you after a date he'll think you're not interested.
Whatever it is you can find it more easily if you hang out in places where your "type" does. So don't wait for him to call, let him know you had a great time."Suggest another date, don't play it cool.